A journey is traveling from one place to another. How this is done is “one step at a time.

Re-examine all that you have been told…dismiss that which insults your soul. ~ Walt Whitman

When it comes down to it, you have to listen to your inner being. Half my life has been unlearning what doesn’t work for me, and the other half is learning how to believe in myself and stand firm in making the best decisions for me and my pets. I honor self-worth.

Having a pet is a commitment that very few are truly prepared for, especially when your pet grows older. I certainly didn’t know what to do and I am a true lover and advocate of the animal kingdom!

Puppies can be difficult at first because they need to be trained for their basic needs and necessities. Sleep deprivation is common and people can find that their own emotions can be intensely challenged.

However, you must remember your commitment and continue forward. This commitment is a life lesson and our pets help us learn. You find so many gifts together as you learn together. Even if it’s over a chewed pillow or the act of carrying your dog outdoors to go to the bathroom.  Remember your commitment. Being committed is key to follow-through. You don’t need to perfect, but you do need to be consistent and have a purpose. You need a “why” (purpose). The book Start with Why by Simon Sinek is an easy and excellent read that will help you find your “why”.

Out of the blue (it seems), your pet becomes a senior. If you’ve never had a senior pet, the experience can be overwhelming. Not only physically, but emotionally. You need to prepare.

If you don’t prepare, you could set yourself up to feeling bad or guilt-ridden. This is not the path you have to take and can be avoided with the proper mindset and emotional tools as your journey with your pet continues.

Watching my gals slow down affected me and I wasn’t as prepared as I thought I was. Perhaps because when I was younger, my parents took responsibility for most of my pet’s aging issues.

During this time dealing with a senior, it can be difficult to live in the moment and not start dreading the future. Knowing your “why” helps you navigate through this aging process. Get the book!

I committed to being there for my pets no matter what. I suggest you do the same to be there for them even when they no longer want to play fetch, or they can’t hear as well, or they can’t see. It’s all a part of the aging process of life. You will do a great job and get through these times, we are created resiliently this way.

Those of us who have enjoyed pets through our journeys know how amazing senior pets are. Mine usually walked without a leash along the trails, they had no desire to “run away” to explore, they made me laugh all of the time, they were calm, and they were as loving as they were when they were young. Senior animals are unconditional love. Pure and simple!

The commitment of follow-through is a true gift and blessing, not only with senior pets but with everything you choose to do. Being of service feels good. Being of service to animals that need you is fantastic!